I recently watched Darci Lynne Farmer, the 12-year-old singing ventriloquist from Oklahoma City, wow the audience and the judges on America’s Got Talent. Before the 7-minute video was over I laughed, and I cried. Real tears. I am not kidding.
And then I thought…
What if Darci Lynne had never practiced ventriloquism on her own at home? What if she’d just waited until age 18, signed up for ventriloquism classes, and then expected those classes to give her everything she needed to perform like a superstar?
Would Darci Lynne have ever gotten anywhere?
Students age 15-26 need time to practice what they’re naturally good at.
I’m not just talking about sports and musical instrument practice.
I’m also talking about other kinds of talents and interests, like computer programming, communicating with special needs kids, leading others in work on big projects, building robots, and writing short stories.
Kids who end up succeeding in big ways often start developing their natural talents very early on.
Problem is, kids can’t start developing their natural talents very early on if they don’t know what they are.
This is why I’m adamant that I want students to take three specific strengths, personality, and interest assessments at age 15, or as soon as possible after that. I explain exactly how to get this done in chapter 13 of my book LAUNCH: How to Get Your Kids Through College Debt-Free and Into Jobs They Love Afterward.
If your son can zero in on what he is naturally good at and interested in as early as age 15, he can get a 6-year head start on:
- Practicing those skills at home by himself
- Job shadowing–where he learns by observing people who use those skills in the workplace
- Reading books and articles on the topic
- Volunteering to work alongside people who are using those skills in the community
If your daughter can do this, she’ll end up being a highly desirable college and grad school applicant, she’ll be an astoundingly strong candidate for college scholarships, and she’ll have more fun during the years of age 15 to age 22. Why? Because practicing what you are good at and naturally interested in is one of the happiest, most fulfilling things a person can do in life.
To get straight to 12-year-old ventriloquist Darci Lynne’s amazing performance on America’s Got Talent, fast forward 2 minutes and 30 seconds in the video below:
Remember, if your child’s area of talent and interest will eventually require the polish of a college education, it’s important for him or her to learn high-end college study skills very early on — preferably in middle school.
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There’s no part of parenting more important than setting your kid up for successful college and career life.
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And if your child’s already well past middle school? That’s OK; you can run to catch up. But the process of getting your kids through college debt-free goes more smoothly the earlier you start it – especially if you’re not planning to save up any money to pay for college.
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Who is Jeannie Burlowski?
Jeannie is a full time author, academic strategist, and speaker. Her writing and speaking help parents set their kids up to graduate college debt-free and move directly into careers they excel at and love. Her work has been featured in publications such as The Huffington Post, USA Today, NerdWallet, and US News and World Report.